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How to deal with pressure to marry from parents and society

How to deal with pressure to marry from parents and society by Bibi Babatunde-Ikotun In this video, I shared 5 tips that can help you deal with the pressure to get married from your parents, loved ones and society at large. Whether you're a man or woman, this video will encourage you.  Do you know how to deal with the pressure to marry from parents and society? Do you need practical ways to deal with the pressure to marry? I know single people can't escape the "when will you marry" question from well-meaning but nosy loved ones but you can shake off the pressure that comes with this question.  Nobody pressured into marriage ever made the best decision. Marriage is forever, you have to calm down and make the best possible decision about it.  I hope this video helps you. Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV) There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: Let me know what you think. With love, Bibi

What do you treasure?

What do you treasure? by Toyosi Adegunle Something happens when you like, love, or have a crush on someone. When you love a web series/ TV show. When you have to be home to an exciting thing, or when see an item you desire in a physical or online store. Whatever you love is your focus - your heart will be on it. You will yearn for it, you can't wait to focus on everything you love and want to have, your desires will be your treasure. Treasures are hidden gifts or virtues of high importance to an individual. Treasures can take any form, they are very special, important, and valuable. They mean the world to people. There's a universal attitude to what you love, they are protected, cherished and most importantly, people never want to lose their treasures.  Have you ever had to let go of someone or something you loved? How did you feel? How long did it take you to get over the 'loss'? Did you think the world would crumble? Was it hard? Was your heart broken?  So many questi

Meet my husband Nigerian couple in Canada (Video)

Meet my husband Nigerian couple in Canada (Video) by Bibi Babatunde-Ikotun Hi everyone, meet my husband! We are a Nigerian couple based in Canada. We were in a long-distance marriage for 14 months and I thought it was a great idea to introduce him to my youtube channel and my blog. If you're a follower on any of my social media platforms, you already know him.  Don't worry, I didn't forget to share how we met in this "Meet my husband" video because I intend to record that as a separate video when the time is right.  Ephesians 5:25: "For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her." We shared some relationship nuggets, I know y'all live for things like that. lol. Show us some love on the video with your likes, subscribes and comments.  With love, Bibi 

How to guard your heart on Social Media

How to guard your  heart on Social Media by Toyosi Adegunle Half the time, if not always, your actions and thoughts are a result of what you listen to, watch and read. Guarding your heart involves guarding your thought process and check-mating what you take in lest you'll be filled with junk. Trust me, this is a basic life principle. Even as a random person, you can't give everything and everyone access to your life and mental space, you will be drained in no time.  As a believer, it's not okay to give everything - challenges, trends, quotes, advice aka hot takes,  on social media access to your heart, thought process, and actions. You have to pay extra cautious attention to what you read, watch, jump on, and listen to, to preserve your basic human decency, values,   morals, and spiritual virtues. It's not enough that you checkmate what you take in, it is also very important to not feel like you are missing out on anything. If you make efforts to keep it together and co