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Story time, When I blocked my husband (Video)

Storytime, When I blocked my husband As requested, on Twitter, the story time of when I blocked my husband.  When I did research on all the storytimes connected to blocking your husband on youtube, it was all negative stories about infidelity and divorce. I'm glad this is a positive story. Don't worry, it's not just gist. I also spoke about the gospel, the importance of partnering with the Holy Spirit when it comes to your marital decision and vulnerability advice. Please like and comment on the video in YouTube, -Bibi 

Christian Content Creators to follow

Christian Content Creators to follow  by Toyosi Adegunle Hey, fam! Time to switch up your socials a little bit. You know how we write a lot about what you consume and choose to watch, listen to or read, and how much these things impact your overall lifestyle as a believer.  Over the next few weeks in October, we will be sharing local and foreign Christain content creators you can follow and enjoy wholesome, enjoyable, edifying content from.  Before we get started, it is imperative to prepare your heart and help you understand the need to follow and engage wholesome and edifying content. Here are links to previous posts that highlight one or two things about what you read, watch and listen to.  1. How to guard your heart on social media - https://www.bibilamour04.com/2021/02/how-to-guard-your-heart-on-social-media.html 2. How to improve your Spiritual health (3) - https://www.bibilamour04.com/2021/06/how-to-improve-your-spiritual.html 3. Is living godly outdated? - https://www.bi

When and how to take a social media fast (video)

How to take a social media fast Hi Family, In this video, I share how and when to take a social media fast.  There are certain things you'd observe in life that leads you to fast from social media, you may have observed them but ignored them. I shared some of these things and I hope it inspires you. The how of social media is equally important so you don't break your fast prematurely.  As young Christians, we must be aware of all the distractions that try to stop us from spending time in fellowship with God. Be intentional about doing a social media fast often. Check out the video and let me know your thoughts. 

Is living godly outdated?

Is living godly outdated? by Toyosi Adegunle What is it like living a godly life in the 21st Century?   Quite hard, if you ask me. I was humming a song during work hours, and I remember that I had only heard the song on Social Media, I have never listened to it before, I remember telling my Colleague how hard it can be to keep a pure and clean mind in this life where you hear, read and see obscene things without your permission. We ended the conversation with "Guard your heart with all diligence, for out of it comes issues of life".   Godliness is an act of following, doing, and learning the way of God. Simply put, it is being like God - taking up the character and pattern of God. Living a godly life is one of the things we've been called to do.   Acting as much as you learn is one of my definitions of living a godly life. We learn of the ways of God by studying and converting with the Holyspirit off, we become Godly only by doing what we learn. You have to choose to be

Smart money woman; personal finance tips

Smart money woman; personal finance tips The Smart Money woman series was really interesting, you should check it out on Netflix . After watching it, I got inspired to share these 5 personal finance tips. When it comes to money many people are going with the flow. But it requires intentionality, we must steward everything God has blessed us with.  I covered giving cheerfully but prudently, retirement funds, and many more.  I don't know all things personal finance but I believe that I am a smart money woman. I hope this helps you in your journey to financial freedom.  Proverbs 13.22a A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children,  With love, Bibi 

How to be Content and Grateful

How to be Content and Grateful by Toyosi Adegunle Hey, fam! I hope you have had it good so far. I hope you're walking in love, power, strength and faith in Jesus.  A few days ago, I resumed work earlier than I should have, as usual, because the people of Lagos and traffic in Lagos are in constant battle and this time, I won. I hope I continually win 😩 I met my colleague and we had a conversation about gratitude and contentment. It was a short one, yet it served as a good reminder for us both. Lately, I think about the numerous things I still want to do, work on, and have in life and I realize that my desires are not going to end anytime soon. I have concluded that this is how life works and this is how humans are wired - to want and desire things every time. Maybe it's why the scripture says "Bless the Lord, O my soul; And all that is within me, bless His holy name"Psalms 103:1 (NKJV).  This scripture feels like a reminder for the soul of man because we are quick to

Montreal girls trip day 2| We almost drowned

Montreal girls trip day 2| We almost drowned Here is episode 2 of our time in Montreal, Quebec. The title is a bit dramatic but it is what is. It was such a hot day and we're so thankful for the gift of sunscreen. Girl's trips are super important for young women, I can't overemphasize this.  Is it too soon to say "take me back"? Check it out. With love, Bibi 

Does God allow evil to happen to us?

Does God allow evil to happen to us? by Bibi Babatunde-Ikotun Hi family, in today's post I may not give full answers but I ask some questions that will require you to think critically about your faith and hopefully go into a journey of deconstructing and reconstructing your beliefs about God. We say God is good all the time.  We say God is love. We say God does not change. We say God is light. Do we really believe these things about God? I ask because sometimes we say things like God caused me to have an accident so I can draw closer to him or God allowed my loved one to die so I can be pruned or God allowed calamity to before me so I can find my purpose. Why would a good God cause you pain to bring you closer to Him? Why would the almighty God who doesn't impose the most important thing (salvation) on us cause us to suffer in order to draw us close to him? My keyword is CAUSE ! Let's look at some scriptures that will help us think critically on this topic: James 1:17 (NKJV