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What we've learned in 2 years of marriage - Christian couple

What we've learned in 2 years of marriage - Christian couple What have we learned in 2 years of marriage? As a Christian couple, we share the whole tea on our 2nd-year marriage journey so far. Hi lovelies, it's been 2 years of marriage with this awesome man.  As a Christian couple, we figured it will be nice to share some nuggets about the marriage journey so far. What has happened? What we've learned? we shared it all in the 2 years anniversary video. We answered 10 questions and shared Christian answers. We are wishing you all the very best in your marriages and relationships. I'd love to learn about your marriage as well. Let's be friends on social media; Twitter: https://twitter.com/bibilamour04​  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bibilamour04/​  Check out my other videos: Lies about keeping your virginity and being celibate: https://youtu.be/4yTeAdLKtX8​  How to stop masturbating/watching porn as a Christian: https://youtu.be/euHbYC17R9M​ Managing sexual de

10 things Christian couples should talk about before marriage

10 things Christian couples should talk about before marriage by Bibi Babatunde-Ikotun Hi Bi-blings, it's been a hot minute I did a post on relationship and marriage. I guess it's timely because my 2 years wedding anniversary is next week and I'm in the romantic love space so I figured I might as well. So why is it important to discuss these things? Well, it's necessary because it eliminates a lot of headaches you may have along the way. It may not eliminate it all completely but there won't be any surprises. Imagine if after you said "I do", the person reveals that they are not interested in children and you want 2 kids. Where would you start from? There are so many conflicts that can be avoided altogether by having these difficult conversations before you say I do. Money Listen, money is very important in marriage. If you're not talking about your money habits now, you are setting yourself up for hard conversations down the line. Ask questions about

Does God love me personally?

Does God love me personally? by Bibi Babatunde-Ikotun Do you ever wonder if God loves you personally? Or you’re sharing His love with the rest of the world? After all, John 3.16 says For God so loved the world, the world is 7 billion people. How can He possibly love you? This is why it's easy for us to think of His love as generally divided amongst all humans, we never get to see it in the personal details of our life. But I want to remind you of the truth that his love for you is really personalized. Answer me this, d o you know that if you were the only human on earth, He would still have sacrificed His life for you? Romans 5:8 (NKJV) But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Sometimes we think God’s love for us is dependent on our love for him. Like if we ever stopped loving Him, He will decide to stop loving us. This is untrue because the bible tells us in 1 John 4.9  (NKJV) We love Him because He first loved us

Preparing your heart for in-laws (Video)

Preparing your heart for in-laws I was inspired by a conversation to speak on this topic. As believers, our outlook about in-laws especially mothers-in-law must be different. Whatever fear you have, take it to the Lord in prayer. It is better than wishing death on your mother-in-law. Listen, God is able to bless you with amazing in-laws. Even if they are not amazing you have the Holy Spirit to help you relate with them in love without getting tired. Please watch, like and comment on the video. With love, BIbi

How to be grateful at the end of the year

How to be grateful at the end of the year by Toyosi Adegunle  Bless the Lord, O my soul, And forget not all His benefits: -Psalms 103:2 NKJV Whenever I read this scripture, I have a theory that if there wasn't the tendency to forget, this scripture would probably be a part of the Bible. If David didn't think Humans could easily forget things - good or bad, in this case, especially good things, he would not mention in.  "Bless the Lord oh my soul" is a line in the book of Psalms that was used countless times and it just goes to tell us how important Gratitude is to our lives and relationship with God. Growing up, I heard this song from all corners and heard people say you can't buy anything for God, you can't give him money, you can't give him food also, but the only thing he wants from you is gratitude. I had a couple of issues with some parts of the song though, but again, gratitude is key.  Don't you love it when you do things for people and they are

Story time, When I blocked my husband (Video)

Storytime, When I blocked my husband As requested, on Twitter, the story time of when I blocked my husband.  When I did research on all the storytimes connected to blocking your husband on youtube, it was all negative stories about infidelity and divorce. I'm glad this is a positive story. Don't worry, it's not just gist. I also spoke about the gospel, the importance of partnering with the Holy Spirit when it comes to your marital decision and vulnerability advice. Please like and comment on the video in YouTube, -Bibi 

Christian Content Creators to follow

Christian Content Creators to follow  by Toyosi Adegunle Hey, fam! Time to switch up your socials a little bit. You know how we write a lot about what you consume and choose to watch, listen to or read, and how much these things impact your overall lifestyle as a believer.  Over the next few weeks in October, we will be sharing local and foreign Christain content creators you can follow and enjoy wholesome, enjoyable, edifying content from.  Before we get started, it is imperative to prepare your heart and help you understand the need to follow and engage wholesome and edifying content. Here are links to previous posts that highlight one or two things about what you read, watch and listen to.  1. How to guard your heart on social media - https://www.bibilamour04.com/2021/02/how-to-guard-your-heart-on-social-media.html 2. How to improve your Spiritual health (3) - https://www.bibilamour04.com/2021/06/how-to-improve-your-spiritual.html 3. Is living godly outdated? - https://www.bi

When and how to take a social media fast (video)

How to take a social media fast Hi Family, In this video, I share how and when to take a social media fast.  There are certain things you'd observe in life that leads you to fast from social media, you may have observed them but ignored them. I shared some of these things and I hope it inspires you. The how of social media is equally important so you don't break your fast prematurely.  As young Christians, we must be aware of all the distractions that try to stop us from spending time in fellowship with God. Be intentional about doing a social media fast often. Check out the video and let me know your thoughts.