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Myths about feminists

Myths about feminists Hello everyone, thank you so much for clicking on my link. You are awesome and God bless you richly. Please if you have not subscribed to my blog, click on the big subscribe button above and enter your email address. This is the last Thursday in the International Women’s Month and I had so much fun writing about women-focused content. I hope we all had a chance to unlearn and relearn stuff that society has conditioned us into believing. Remember, #BalanceForBetter is the  watch  action word for every space. I chose to write about feminists related myths this week because I observed that many have uninformed pre-conceived notions about feminists and I wanted to clear the air about these popular notions as seen on Nigerian Twitter. Let me know your thoughts, leave a comment below. Feminist: a person who supports feminism. Feminism: the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. ·     Feminists are angry, lonely

Prayers for women (Wives, Mothers, and friends)

Prayers for women (Wives, Mothers, and friends) Hello, I hope you are having a wonderful week so far. Thanks so much for clicking this link, you are amazing and I pray that God meets you at the point of your needs in Jesus name, Amen. Quick housekeeping before I get into the reason you clicked the link if you’d like to get more of my amazing content please click the subscribe button above. It will ask for your email address, please enter your email address and click submit. That way you get my content straight in your email box and can share with your friends and family. Thank you. I believe so much in the power of prayers because we know all God’s promises are Yes and Amen. (You can check out my most recent post on  praying ). So I figured since we are still celebrating women in the month of March, its a good time to pray for all women in our lives. I know some families have the woman as the spiritual leader, use this as an opportunity to nourish her spiritually. This post wi

Women are Fierce, Strong, Powerful!

You are Fierce, Strong, Powerful! It’s still International Women’s Month and like I said in my last post , I will be focusing on women related issues. Thank you so much for coming back to my blog, you are amazing and I deeply appreciate you. If you have not subscribed yet, what are you waiting? Please click the subscribe button above and enter your email address. This ensures that you never miss out on any of my content, you get it straight in your inbox. Please subscribe, God bless you. Quick background about me, I am the 3rd child of 6 girls. I don’t know when I became passionate about women but I think my position in my family played a role in this. I remember my dad saying to me “don’t let anyone despise you because you are a girl. You are capable of greatness”. I mean 6 girls right; society must have really pressured them for a son. It is quite apparent the worldly systems aren’t created to allow a woman to live and enjoy life, I mean you have to suffer to be crowned a

Are Men Scum: The godly man guide

Men are Scum: The godly man guide to not being a scum Last week, I watched Larry Charles' dangerous world of comedy on Netflix and the third episode focused on sexism.  It turns out that Nigeria's comedy industry thrives on sexists jokes that objectify women, normalise rape and encourage the exploitation of women. It was one of the most disgusting things I have ever watched. It's interesting that many think rape is a thing to joke about and the audience laughs at those vile jokes that involve victim blaming. Sexism is broadly seen in our society from the blue collar workers to the board room bosses, from Nollywood movies to product commercials. It is so deeply embedded in our subconscious that we don’t intend to hurt women with our words or actions, it is just a thing of a "normal thing". The truth is I am not trying to vilify anyone. The average man was dealt sexism as a part of being in this present day society. The good thing is you can unlearn all of